Forget Me Not Day

The Forget Me Not Day, observed on November 10, is a day to remember and honour those who made profound sacrifices—especially veterans who returned from service wounded or disabled—and to reconnect with loved ones we may have lost touch with.

History of Forget Me Not Day

The observance began in 1921 as a fundraiser for veterans of World War I, especially those who returned home with severe injuries. Judge Robert S. Marx, a veteran himself, helped establish the tradition of selling forget-me-not flowers to raise awareness and support for wounded veterans.
Over time, the symbolism of the forget-me-not flower—signifying remembrance, devotion and memory—has broadened the day’s meaning beyond veterans to include reconnection with friends and loved ones, as well as recognising those we should not forget.

Why is Forget Me Not Day important?

This day matters because it gives a focused moment to honour individuals whose sacrifices or presence might otherwise fade from memory. For veterans who live with physical or emotional wounds, recognition reminds them they are not forgotten.
It also invites us personally to reflect on relationships, connections and memories that deserve our attention—whether with people we’ve lost, drifted apart from, or simply taken for granted.

• It draws attention to the sacrifices of wounded and disabled veterans.
• It supports the idea that care, remembrance and respect remain needed long after service ends.
• It encourages reaching out to friends or family members we’ve lost contact with.
• It symbolises memory and connection through the forget-me-not flower.
• It strengthens community by reminding us that remembrance is a shared responsibility.

How to Observe Forget Me Not Day

Since this day combines remembrance, connection and support, it’s fitting to observe it—by reaching out, giving, and reflecting rather than simply celebrating. Consider taking time to honour someone, reconnect, or support a cause linked to memory or veterans.
Here are some simple ideas:

• Send a bunch of forget-me-not flowers or a note to a veteran, friend or family member to say “I remember you”.
• Contact someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time—call, write, visit—and let them know they still matter.
• Volunteer or donate to an organisation that supports wounded veterans or disabled service members.
• Take a moment to look through old photos or memories, and share with someone what you found meaningful.
• Post on social media about someone you will never forget and why, using the hashtag #ForgetMeNotDay.

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