Mother Father Deaf Day

Mother Father Deaf Day (Deaf Parents Day) is observed on the last Sunday of April. In 2026, it falls on April 26. This day celebrates the unique relationship between Deaf parents and their children, specifically those known as CODAs (Children of Deaf Adults). It highlights the linguistic and cultural bridge these families build between the Deaf and hearing worlds, recognizing that the vast majority of children born to Deaf parents are hearing but remain an integral part of the Deaf community. ¹

See also: No Limits for Deaf Children Day, World Hearing Day, International Day of Sign Languages, National ASL Day

History of Mother Father Deaf Day

The concept for this observance was first proposed in 1994 by Trudy Schafer during a keynote address at the International CODA Conference in Wisconsin. Schafer envisioned a dedicated time to share positive stories about growing up in Deaf households and to honor the heritage of hearing individuals raised within the Deaf culture. The name of the holiday is derived from the phrase “mother father deaf,” a common way for CODAs to identify their background within the Deaf community.

Following its initial proposal, the day was first officially observed in 1996. Since then, CODA International has served as the primary organization promoting the event globally. The organization uses the day to foster a sense of pride and belonging among children of Deaf adults, encouraging them to celebrate their unique upbringing. Over the decades, the celebration has expanded to include “KODAs” (Kids of Deaf Adults) and has gained recognition as a vital day for cultural visibility.

Why is Mother Father Deaf Day important?

This day is essential for raising awareness about a family dynamic that is often misunderstood by the general public. Approximately 90% of children born to profoundly Deaf parents are hearing, yet these children often grow up using sign language as their first language. Mother Father Deaf Day acknowledges the “dual-cultural” identity of these individuals, who navigate the distinct social norms and communication styles of both the hearing and Deaf spheres.

The observance also challenges stereotypes regarding the parenting abilities of Deaf individuals. By showcasing the successful, loving, and supportive environments provided by Deaf parents, the day promotes social inclusivity and breaks down systemic biases. It provides a platform for CODAs to connect with one another, share resources, and celebrate the rich linguistic heritage passed down through their families.

• The holiday honors the role of sign language as a primary bond within the family unit.
• It highlights the contributions of Deaf parents to the broader community.
• The day provides visibility for CODAs, who are often a “hidden” cultural minority.
• It encourages the preservation of Deaf history and family narratives.
• Promoting this bond helps reduce the social isolation sometimes felt by Deaf families.

How to Observe Mother Father Deaf Day

Observing this day often involves family gatherings where American Sign Language (ASL) or local sign languages are the primary mode of communication. Many families use the time to record oral or signed histories, documenting the experiences of their parents and grandparents for future generations. Local CODA chapters frequently organize picnics, brunches, or community events to allow children of Deaf adults to network and socialize in a supportive environment.

For the wider community, the day is an opportunity to learn about Deaf culture and the importance of accessibility. This can include attending workshops on basic sign language or supporting media created by Deaf filmmakers and CODA artists. Many participants use social media to share photos and stories of their parents, using the day to publicly express gratitude for the unique perspective and cultural richness their upbringing provided.

• Share a meal with family where signing is the primary way to communicate.
• Watch films or documentaries that accurately portray the lives of Deaf families.
• Learn basic signs to better communicate with Deaf neighbors or colleagues.
• Donate to organizations that provide scholarships or resources for CODAs.
• Post a tribute to your parents on social media to raise awareness of the day.

Mother Father Deaf Day Dates Table

1. https://www.coda-international.org/deaf-parents-day[↩]